Fear is a liar. It tells you you're not ready. It tells you to wait. It tells you that what you have to offer isn't enough.

One of the hardest things in life is standing still long enough to really look at the person in the mirror.

Here's a leadership secret most people overlook: kindness isn't weakness. It's strategy.

Most people are playing the short game. They're chasing the quick win, the instant result, the immediate payoff. And then they wonder why nothing lasts.

When you're leading from survival, everything is reactive. You're managing crises, chasing validation, trying to prove something to someone. You're stuck in patterns that were formed years ago, maybe even decades ago and you don't even realize it. You're successful on the outside, but exhausted on the inside. 

Nashville is 3 weeks away. May 2–3. And the closer we get, the more I realize what makes these rooms so powerful. It's not just the speakers. It's not just the strategy. It's the fact that everyone in the room has made a decision to stop waiting and start building. They're not chasing someone else's definition of success, they're creating their own.

I had the honor of spending the day with Kerrie Lee Brown and her incredible team at Success Magazine for a photo shoot and interview, and it reminded me of something I've been thinking about a lot lately: the people who win consistently aren't just lucky, they're intentional. They surround themselves with the right people. They invest in the right rooms. They make decisions that align with where they're going, not where they've been.

My team and I have been watching the momentum build around Nashville, and the interest has been incredible. People are reaching out, asking questions, securing their spots and I don't want you to be the one looking back in a few weeks wishing you had moved when you had the chance.

There's something powerful that happens when people decide to stop waiting and start moving. I saw it in Miami. I've seen it in every room where transformation actually takes place. And I'm already seeing it build toward what's coming next.

I'm back home from Miami, and I'm still thinking about what happened last weekend.

I'm writing to you from Miami. The Mastermind just wrapped yesterday, and I'm still here processing everything that happened this weekend. I wish I could capture it all in words, but some things you just have to experience to understand.

When was the last time you celebrated a win? Not the big one you're chasing, but the one you just had.

Let me tell you something about freedom: it's not just about where you are, it's about who you become when life tries to break you.

Real freedom is reclaimed. It's rebuilt. It's a decision you make every single day to not let your circumstances, your setbacks, or other people's opinions define who you are. Some of you are reading this right now and you've been through things that would've destroyed most people. But you're still here. You're still standing. You're still fighting for the life you deserve.

Here's what separates people who dream about success from people who build it: They make a decision to become the highest version of themselves and they intentionally place themselves in rooms with people who stretch their thinking.

Let me tell you something about your career, your purpose, and your future: it's never too late to rebuild, reinvent, and rise again. 2026 isn't just another year, it's your year to stop playing small and start building the life you've been dreaming about.

There's something special about someone who has built everything from nothing and never forgot where they came from. Real leadership isn't just about what you build it's about who you become while you're building it, and how many people you bring with you on the way up.

I’m honored to announce that John Paul DeJoria has officially joined the Lead With Love family as an investor, advisor, and an upcoming guest speaker. John Paul is a true American success story and one of the most respected entrepreneurs of our time. He is the co-founder of Paul Mitchell, one of the most iconic haircare brands in the world, and the co-founder of Patrón Tequila, which became one of the most recognized luxury tequila brands ever built.

For so many of us, life can feel like a series of setbacks. Moments that knock us off balance, make us question our direction, and challenge our courage. But what if I told you the next big thing in your life is waiting on the other side of that discomfort. What if your next level of clarity, connection, and courage is not only possible, but inevitable.

We are growing and moving to a NEW ACCOUNT that reflects where I am now, and where I’m going next. I would love for you to join me on this journey. The current page will no longer be active.

We just wrapped up an incredible Lead With Love One-Day High-Impact Mastermind in San Diego. It was intimate. It was intentional. And it was powerful. A highly selected group of people showed up hungry for clarity, growth, and real transformation.